Thursday, January 31, 2008

Remembering Grandpa

It is really hard to put into words just how incredible a man my Grandpa was, but I know I speak for the entire McHenry extended family when I say that we're grateful that so many people managed to do that hard task and tell us about how much he meant to them.

We heard stories about how he would keep his yard perfectly groomed (and it is an ENORMOUS amount of yard to manage!) and how when the apples would start to fall, he would pick them up and take them to the horses down the road. And how he would save his grass clippings to take to the pasture at the same farm to help the mulching.

We heard about how he befriended a sweet little kiddo named Noah at church and how they became fast and fierce friends. How Noah would call "Mac!!!" when Grandpa would come in on Sundays. And how Noah loved trains as much as Grandpa did and how they could go on and on about them.

We heard about how long and how hard Grandpa would work as an Engineer for the B&O Railroad. We heard about how Grandma used to look for the steam of the train so she knew when to go pick him up at the station. We learned how he got a letter from her every single day when he was in Germany and Luxembourg during the war.

We learned that he was the source of many recent adventures...one involving driving around town at 2:00 am to make sure that others who were in need were able to be comfortable and taken care of in their final hours (and how he even managed to make such a difficult time like that one such a memorable and special one).

We learned how he was often one of the first to arrive and one of the last to leave when he went to area church and VFW dinners. Everyone knew him and everyone loved to talk to him.

Then there were a lot of things we already knew. That he was funny. VERY funny. And that he was kind. And that he knew how to sacrifice and save. That he is in Heaven with the God he loved and served.

We will miss him more than we can even predict. His passing was quick and unexpected but we are able to celebrate that he will never be lonely again. He can enjoy all the $0.25 pies Heaven has to offer (he was REALLY frugal here on earth!). He can enjoy perfect sight with no cataracts. He can enjoy meals far better than even the amazing feasts in Rockland. He can golf on courses far more incredible than even his cherished Myrtle Beach. He can see sights even more majestic than what he would marvel at in Colorado each year. He can reunite with all those who went before and were waiting expectantly for him. And the rest of us will look forward to joining him some day. And we know the first thing he'll say is "don't you want something more to eat? Come on, just finish up this corn. How about some more turkey? Ham? Eat!"

8 comments:

Susan said...

What a nice tribute to your grandfather! I'm not surprised to hear that he was a wonderful man- I know some of his descendants. My condolences to your family.

Anonymous said...

Thank you.

Megan said...

I'm so sorry for your loss - it sounds like your grandfather was a really amazing man! How wonderful that you have all those stories and memories to hold in your heart as well as to pass along to your kids.

Krissy said...

Oh Amy,

I am so sorry to hear about your Grandpa. You really did write a wonderful tribute...he sounds like someone I would have liked to have known. (My grandpa worked on the railroad too!)

Miss you Amy! I think it is time for a BSG group update email.

Sarah said...

Amy, it is so nice to know that he is in heaven. I look forward to hanging out with him someday. I do hope that you and your family can all maintain these wonderful memories of him!

Sarah said...

Amy, I think you are commenting on my blog at the same time as you are commenting on mine!

Lauren said...

Oh Amy, I am so very sorry, he sounds like such a wonderful man, and like this is a tremendous loss for your family. Your tribute is absolutely beautiful, he was so blessed to have such a loving granddaughter in you, and his legacy lives on in you and the love you share.

Anonymous said...

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, Amy. So sorry to hear you have lost your beloved Grandpa. You did a fine job of remembering him. I pray these memories will be a comfort to you always.